Meet Dr. Dharshi Jayasekera: A Voice of Natural Healing in Sri Lanka

Dr. Dharshi Jayasekera is one of the well-known naturapathic practitioners in Sri Lanka and her practice integrates Ayurveda, conscious breathing, acupuncture and yoga, all rooted in her belief that true healing begins with self-awareness.

Dr. Dharshi’s journey into healing was never conventional. In her early years, she pursued a career as a primary teacher, teaching children between the ages 8 and 12. When we asked how she knew that she had the healing abilities, she reflected on how people often felt their pain ease through her therapeutic touch. She clarified that it was not something mystical or “possessed”, rather, it was about understanding the body, creating awareness and applying precise therapeutic touch to the right areas to help the pain ease naturally.

When Life Had Other Plans for Her

During her time in education, she was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis affecting her hip joint and making it extremely painful to walk or even sit for long periods. At the same time, she was facing other health complications, including thalassemia and womb-related issues. She recalled that Western Medicine offered little relief and doctors were unable to provide a long-term solution to her condition at the time.

No one, at the time, could have imagined that these painful health struggles would become the very turning point that guided her toward her true calling.

Dr. Dharshi explained to us that during this difficult period of her life, a friend introduced her to meditation. At the time, Dr. Dharshi was a devout Christian and had even spent 8 years as a “Servant of God” before becoming a teacher. Therefore, meditation was unfamiliar territory for her. Yet, her years in religious life had already made her powerful, particularly with the practice of praying deeply for others. But then, when she realized that praying for the well-being of others alone does not satisfy her salvation to find herself, she started her journey into meditation.

Her Journey from Faith to Inner Awakening

When she was introduced to meditation, her journey deepened. She travelled to India and completed a 10-day Vipassana meditation program at Igatpur, Mumbai. There, she learned discipline, self-observation and a fundamental truth: meditation has nothing to do with the outside world and it is entirely an inward journey.

It was also during this time that she was introduced to yoga; something she had never encountered/heard before. In 2007, yoga was still not widely discussed in her circles but she later had the rare opportunity to learn directly under Sadhguru at the Isha Foundation, India, completing an intensive 21-day program that included strict yogic practices and a vegetarian discipline.

What she experienced during this period was transformative. She recalls witnessing her body heal the pain that once restricted her from any movement. For the first time in years, she felt completely free within her own body through what she had been learning.

Returning to Sri Lanka, she began teaching yoga. For her, yoga was not just physical exercise; it was a science of calming the body, disciplining the mind, and sharpening concentration. Curious about her own transformation, she pursued further studies in yoga therapy and naturopathy at S-VYASA University, Bengaluru.

While studying in Bengaluru, she was learning under the guidance of Shri Shri Ravishankar. There, she refined her Pranayama techniques and with every lesson, every retreat, she felt her life unfolding in a “new form”, which is clearer, lighter and more purposeful.

Her Journey Did Not Stop There

She immersed herself in Pranayama (conscious breathing techniques), recalling her guru’s words: “If you don’t breathe properly and connect with your breathing, you’re disconnected from life itself.” This realization led her to deepen her practice in Anapana meditation, a form of breath awareness.

She also completed more than fifteen 10-day Vipassana retreats, each time reconnecting more deeply with herself. And she believes that everything required for holistic healing, including mind, body and spirit is interconnected through conscious breathing.

In 2013, she came back to Sri Lanka and started teaching Yoga as a Yoga instructor and today, many of her earliest yoga students remain with her. These individuals who began their journey years ago as young students are now in their 70s and 80s.

Remarkably, many of them live without any chronic pain and without dependency on medication. They maintain impressive physical flexibility and mental clarity as well.

Healing With Awareness: Yoga, Breath, and the Art of Pulse Diagnosis

When Dr. Dharshi decided to formally practice naturopathy, she faced a major challenge: Sri Lanka did not yet have a licensing system for the field. Determined to pursue her calling, she enrolled in a degree in Ayurveda at ITCM in Gampaha to get the certificates necessary to obtain the official license. She expanded her skills by learning cupping and acupuncture under Dr. Tennakoon from the Colombo Ayurvedic Hospital.

Though she is trained in multiple modalities, she highlighted that her mainstream practice focuses on Yoga, breathing techniques, acupuncture and Ayurveda, particularly in treating heart patients.

“There are many people who were advised to undergo heart surgery by doctors,” she shared, “they come to me and through breathing techniques, I have helped them release heart blockages naturally.”

Dr. Dharshi also possesses an extraordinary ability: pulse diagnosis. With no formal training, she accurately reads a patient’s pulse, intuitively determines where the problem lies in their body and advices how to heal it. When doing so, she clarifies that this is not a supernatural power or possession. Her practice is rooted in self-awareness, meditation and breathing, while she maintains deep respect for all religions equally.

“I believe in Dhamma and I strive to discipline myself according to Seela (moral conduct). This discipline extends to my patients when they come to me. Regardless of their occupation, I become their servant. I touch each of them with respect, love, empathy and focus to the extent that it allows me to truly feel what they are experiencing,” she explained.

One favor she asks from everyone reading this article, ” If you have a tree at home, start loving that tree loudly and dearly and whenever you are tensed or your health struggles seem to overpower you, hug that tree. The relief you’ll feel is unimaginable and inexplicable. You will heal yourself through the love you and your tree develop towards each other.”

For Dr. Dharshi, healing was never about miracles. It was about awareness, discipline, breath and reconnecting to the intelligence of the body.

She conducts group healing sessions, travelling to small villages to teach topics such as pelvic awareness. She emphasizes practical education and is always open to discussions.

For those interested in learning from her or arranging a session, she warmly invites you to contact her directly to explore how her teachings and therapies can support your well-being.

Contact her: +94 77 222 7573

The 20-Minute Rule That Could Save Your Relationship This Valentine’s

Why do some couples survive explosive fights while others slowly fall apart? It’s not because they fight less. It’s not because they “found the perfect person” and it’s definitely not because they agree on everything.

According to world-renowned psychologist Dr. John Gottman, the real difference comes down to something surprisingly simple: How quickly they recover.

The Hidden Danger After an Argument

When couples argue, their bodies react as if they’re facing a real threat. Heart rate increases. Stress hormones flood the system. The nervous system shifts into fight-or-flight mode.

And the problem happens when the longer you stay in that heightened state, the harder it becomes to feel empathy, listen properly, solve problems and offer emotional repair. Your body starts treating your partner like the enemy, even if your heart knows they aren’t.

Gottman’s research found that couples who remained physiologically activated after conflict experienced steep drops in relationship satisfaction over time. It wasn’t the argument that destroyed them.

It was the lack of recovery.

The 20-Minute Reset That Changes Everything

The helpful part is couples who took just 20 minutes to calm their nervous system were able to return to the conversation regulated and emotionally available.

Twenty minutes of

Not ignoring the issue.
Not suppressing feelings.
Not walking away forever.

Just pausing long enough for the body to reset.

When your nervous system calms down, empathy becomes accessible again, you can actually hear what your partner is saying, repair becomes possible and connection can rebuild. So, instead of trying to win the argument, you protect the relationship.

With Valentine’s Day Around the Corner…

Everyone talks about flowers, gifts, and romantic dinners. But the healthiest relationships aren’t built on one perfect day.

They’re built on moments like choosing to pause, choosing to regulate and choosing to repair.

So instead of proving your point this Valentine’s, try proving your commitment and the next time an argument escalates, say: “Let’s take 20 minutes and come back to this.”

That one sentence might be more powerful than any grand gesture.

Love is not all about grand gestures and sweet talks. It’s about learning how to return to each other after fights and choose to repair what just got broken. The strongest couples aren’t the ones who never fight. They’re the ones who know how to reset.

Always Tired? Your Body is Probably Asking for These Sri Lankan Magnesium-Packed Snacks!

Struggling with fatigue, muscle cramps, or stress in the hustle of Colombo or Kandy life? Magnesium-rich local snacks can recharge you naturally, using everyday Sri Lankan ingredients straight from markets like Pettah or roadside vendors.

Magnesium supports nerve function, eases tension from long commutes, and fights deficiencies common in rice-heavy Sri Lankan diets. Adults need about 300-400mg daily; our picks deliver 50-150mg per serving. Grab these for quick boosts during festivals or work breaks.

Top 8 Local Magnesium Snacks

  • Pumpkin Seeds : Roast a handful (150mg magnesium/oz) with chili for a spicy crunch, perfect with tea.

  • Cashews : Fresh from Matale farms (80mg/oz), snack raw or in trail mix with local dried mango.

  • Mango with Chili: Slice ripe Ambul (75mg/cup) and sprinkle seeni sambol, sweet heat that beats imported bars.

  • Roasted Chickpeas (Kadala): Spice with curry leaves (80mg/cup), a street-food staple for sustained energy.

  • Coconut Sambol: Grated pol (50mg/serving) mixed with maldive fish, pairs with roti for 100mg boost.

  • Spinach Mallum: Quick wilted kankun (80mg/cup) with coconut, ideal lunchbox filler from home gardens.

  • Peanuts : Boiled or roasted (60mg/oz), toss with pol sambol for a budget-friendly hit.

  • Banana : Kolikuttu variety (30mg each) smeared with peanut butter, ubiquitous and muscle-soothing.

Regular intake helps regulate blood sugar, reducing cravings that derail diets. It eases PMS symptoms like bloating and mood swings by balancing hormones. Athletes benefit from faster recovery as magnesium aids protein synthesis and cuts inflammation. Long-term, it lowers risks of migraines, hypertension, and osteoporosis through better calcium absorption.

Start your day with almonds in oatmeal (adds 75mg). Mid-morning, grab edamame pods (100mg). Afternoon slump? Dark chocolate and banana (95mg total). Evening wind-down: Avocado half (45mg) curbs late-night munchies. Track intake via apps to hit 300mg+ effortlessly—combine two snacks daily for optimal results.

You can also pair with vitamin D sources like sunlight or fortified milk for better absorption. Hydrate well, as magnesium works with electrolytes. Those with kidney issues should consult doctors before ramping up intake. Experiment with flavors like cinnamon on seeds or chili on chickpeas can also keep it exciting.

Fuel your body right and notice sharper focus, calmer nerves, and vibrant energy within days.

How Self-Acceptance Fuels Personal Growth

In a world that constantly demands perfection, comparison has quietly become a daily habit. People often measure their worth by social media standards, academic success, physical appearance, and public approval but in the midst of all these pressures, the simple yet powerful act of self-love is too easily forgotten. Loving oneself is not an act of selfishness; it is the foundation of emotional stability, confidence, and personal growth.

Self-love starts with simply accepting yourself.

It’s about noticing your strengths while being kind to your imperfections. Each of us carries unique talents, struggles, and stories that make us who we are. When we learn to accept ourselves, we let go of harsh self-criticism and begin to build a healthier relationship with our own identity. That acceptance makes us stronger, helping us face challenges and bounce back from failures with resilience.

Loving yourself means taking care of both your body and your mind. It’s choosing to fuel your body with good food, giving yourself enough rest, and moving in ways that keep you strong and energized. Just as important is caring for your mental health, knowing when to set boundaries, easing stress, and allowing yourself to pause without feeling guilty.

“It’s only after we’ve lost everything that we’re free to do anything.” – Tyler Durden, Fight Club.

When you practice self-love, you recognize that your well-being is just as important as the responsibilities you carry.

Self-love builds emotional independence.

When people truly value themselves, they don’t need constant approval from others. Instead, they make choices that reflect their own values, not just what society expects. This inner strength creates healthier relationships, because when you respect yourself, you set the stage for genuine mutual respect.

Before the success of Harry Potter, J.K. Rowling described herself as “as poor as it is possible to be in modern Britain, without being homeless”. Following a divorce and clinical depression, she described her rock-bottom moment as “liberating,” allowing her to focus entirely on her passion for writing. By trusting in her own voice despite 12 rejections, she transformed her life through self-belief.

Similarly, after dropping out of college, Steve Jobs took a calligraphy course because it interested him; a move that later allowed him to design the beautiful typography of the Macintosh. Later, being fired from Apple, the company he built humbled him but he used that time to rediscover his love for creativity, leading to his eventual return and success.

Self-love is directly linked to personal growth. When people believe in their worth, they are more willing to invest in learning, improving, and pursuing their dreams. They view mistakes as lessons rather than failures and approach life with confidence and determination.

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